i have the utmost faith in the DB method I'm just not seeing much change with me distancing and Ive been applying the methods for 5 months. Yes, we no longer argue and conversations, although brief, are respectful. I'm torn whether I continue with much the same or make further change. Ive looked closer to see whether there were things i were doing that i should and recognized I do all the work around the house. Truthfully it doesn't bother me however for her its no doubt as though she gets her freedom and a well kept house to stay in. Ive stopped doing her laundry, which I never considered before. I'm not certain she feels 'the spark'. Should I be concerned at this stage?
Yesterday she invited me to few hour event in support of my nephew, on her side. She left afterwards and stayed out for the night, as she does, on weekends. But it was a fun time and it was nice seeing my nephews. I caught her looking at me a few times as i joked with them and laughed a lot. Otherwise things are much the same


BD Oct 2016
Me 47, W 43
together 25 years
S 25, D 22