Now that you mention it. This month also marks our 17th year together. Married almost 15 years. Sandi advice on the WW is good, but I wonder if everything applies to every WW. This surprise for my W could be a great thing and work in my favor. Or it could be a way for her to look at me like a sucker.
We still sleep in the same bed and are still having sex. Even though she still wants to leave. But has taken no steps to make that happen. OM is around in EA fashion at this point, whichever is limited to messaging. Neglect was our big issue, so wouldn't this be a huge 180? Even though I've done things for her birthday on past years.