I appreciate your advice. I tried to search for Maximus' story but could only find his posts from 2016 where he was checking back in. I'll continue looking.
I can see how my "boundaries" are really just ways to try and control. And I suppose you're right, I'm looking at detachment as pulling away to try and pull her in.
I'm just going to be completely honest: I'm afraid of losing her. If you have any specific advice I would love to hear it.
M:33 W:34 S:9 S:11 M:12 years T:16
BD: 02-09-2017 (ILYBINILWY) MC Started: 2-12-2017 EA Discovered: 2-13-2017 PA Discovered: 4-16-17
