I know Job, but it is so hard it not to compare with other sitches when I have such little information to go on.

Anyway after all that I was thinking of what my DB coach said about doing a 180 and asking H if he needs any of his stuff that he left behind as he knows it will usept me. So I just dropped him a light text saying that I hope he doesn't think
I am holding his stuff hostage and anytime he needs anything to let me know. He just responded to say he didn't think there was a hostage situation and wanted to know if I wanted to grab a coffee next weekend. What do you think, should I go?

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')