However I find myself wondering if this is her setting permanent boundaries or if this is her needing more time to work on herself under the current situation?
Giftd,
Wondering what's going on in her mind only makes you spin and get sucked into worrying about everything. This is where detachment is key. You can't see what's in her mind and it only wastes energy, emotion from you.
We all wonder what's going on, but the more you detach the less it impacts you daily. Remember, no expectations lead to better days for you and that's what this is all about, you.
Have a good day today, Giftd.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
