Originally Posted By: trumpet
You are not free of your love of your wife.

Will that ever completely go away?

Originally Posted By: trumpet
Any way you can just let the Divorce sit for a while? You don't have to tell her anything, just continue to work on yourself. Not making a decision on the D would give you an opportunity to really step back and view the situation from a 1000 ft. perspective.

So when she texts me asking about D or she goes to the hearing and I'm not there I should just ignore her?

Originally Posted By: trumpet
You're in the heart of the storm. Don't make too many sudden moves - just keep the ship afloat.

I do need to find employment. Are you saying I should just take a position to pay the bills at the moment?


M 8 yrs
EA 6/16
PA 09/16
Separated 10/16
WW moves out 11/16
D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17