It's good that you convinced her to go. Though I imagine it was difficult due to her behavior involving the coach. But it shows that uour willing to support her. And having a hobby makes her feel an individual rather than just a wife. From what I've researched many if these WW get tired of just being wife and mother.
Her liking you still is big step in my opinion. You need to be the first person. She thinks of when she needs advice, tell a joke to and etc. The love should resurface hopefully sometime after that. As for my monster comment, I'm not sure who you were when you drank. It could have been completely terrifying in her eyes. And then when you sobered up could have been the man she feel in love with. I am sure she nervous in regards to you staying sober and having to do deal with the alcohol issues.
The biggest thing is her having hope in the marriage, because she has pissed that. Much like most of our W. But I encourage you to keep it up, because it seems as if your on the right path.
