Does it matter which it is and the corresponding approach? Ive ready many books and online articles and forums. I don't want to get caught up in technicalities however, even here, Ive seen Sandi propose tougher love for the WAS while most other approaching talk distancing, DB'ing or 180.
In my situation my separated wife, who still lives at home, but leaves on weekends, has not talked of departure since BD six+ months ago. There are significant financial implications for her when she departs but i have avoided discussing them as it appears confrontational and against much of what I've read to do.
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22
