RunRec,

I think you are absolutely right; in fact, I think part of his reason for leaving is because he knew he was heading off the deep-end addiction-wise. He may have left to have the mother of all benders.

I have started going to Al-Anon - I should have gone a long time ago. H was in active recovery in NA a few years ago, but after two years of being completely clean, felt it would be ok to have a few beers again and it progressed from there. A lot of my current resentments started with those 'few beers', because I knew we would eventually end up here.


Me: 40 H:42
M 13 yrs, T 15yrs
SD19, D18, SS15
BD: 3/4/17 - ILYBNILWY
He moved out: 4/3/17