WW Help Needed

[trumpet]

You are not free of your love of your wife. Not even close to terminal velocity. You're not free, fully detached, until that happens.

That, my Texas friend, takes time. And if you want it to.

You have had so many vets and highly regarded posters give you great advice. Wise people.

Any way you can just let the Divorce sit for a while? You don't have to tell her anything, just continue to work on yourself. She has a road to travel alone, without you. She has a chance of coming and joining you on your road, though - only if you are healthy enough to never go back to the old gravel road you were on. Not making a decision on the D would give you an opportunity to really step back and view the situation from a 1000 ft. perspective.

You're in the heart of the storm. Don't make too many sudden moves - just keep the ship afloat.