That sounds so similar to my W. It was the neglect and disconnect that led to her A. Aside from the disrespect of having the A, she doesn't really show me any other signs of disrespect. She is also acting like a teenager who is entitled to things. I truly feel that both our W's actually can see the consequences of their actions but disregard the gravity of the them. In their heads right now the value of these consequences are much less than the value of their infatuation. Keep hanging in there.
