I'm starting to wonder if I made a mistake by stopping all contact with WW.
It depends on what you're doing with the time that you're not contacting her. Are you doing GAL, moving on, beginning a great new life without her, or are you sitting around moping, crying, and lamenting your loss? I promise you one of those people she'll be very attracted to and start questioning her own decisions. The other will look pathetic and weak to her. Guess which is which?
Let me explain further. Have you ever broken up with anyone? Many of us have. How did they respond? If they got clingy, needy, moping, crying, begging, etc. that made them even less attractive to you than they had been when you broke up with them. That type of person is not attractive at all and the last thing in the world you want is to get back together with them. If anything, you pity them.
Now on the flip side, if you break up with someone and move on just fine without you? You see them and they're happy, look great, having a blast with their life without you then that is the one you regret letting go. That's the one you want back.
The games people play over matters of the heart are truly immature and asinine but they are what they are and all of us humans play them. We have no choice. Games, however, have winning and losing strategies. The 180/GAL/detach strategy is a winning strategy for this particular game you're playing (whether you wanted to or not).
Don't question the program, it's your absolute best shot at getting your desired results. If it doesn't work out then so be it, the program also set you up for a great new single life full of confidence and excitement about your future. Don't doubt yourself in the program and don't cherry pick any steps, omitting others. Do it all and it's best chance.
