Hi Sandi, thanks again. My response to you kind if got pushed down the thread so hoping it didn't get list in the shuffle. Wanted to get your take based on the additional color I provided, above.
Also wanted to get ANYBODYs take on whether I should first talk to WW and insist on cutting ties or whether I should first confront the OM, my former friend and remind him of all the harm he's causing and see if I can talk sense to him.
I don't remember, is he married? If so, then confronting him may end this A pronto, assuming he wants to keep his marriage/family. Getting out of infidelity is an absolute must before you can save a marriage. It's impossible to work on a marriage that has more than two people in it and right now, yours does.