Its been a roller coaster and in some ways it still is. Only now the dips and turns feels less extreme and more "meh".
Got a court date next month for the big D, filing kinda felt good, like a load off me. As much as i enjoyed my GAL and other activities i did not enjoy being 'married' to someone i wasnt with.
As to why i filed, even though we were separated she kinda left a hook in, dropping lines every few months like shall we try dating and "do you think it can work", but when i called her out (as in sure lets go out) she changes tune. So after almost a year of that i'm just done.
Its a weird process from Bomb drop, the initial shock and clawing to save the marriage, the emotional rollercoaster aftewards that continued on for months and months. Its been 13 months from that day now, im not 100% yet, but i find im doing more than ok.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
