Hello own it ... actually I am happy I don't have any expectations no more. I think it is really nice to stop expecting stuff and only doing what you think is right. At least I don't have to consult with anyone ...(looking at the very bright side) don't have to figure a good time to open a subject about anything I want...no need to compromise.

Ok here is the update. I feel I am watching a movie from far away .. so after two days of no contact with the kids he msg them asking how is it going and he missed them last 2 days. Funny enough the girls didnot answer the msg for two days the the younger one sent him a goodnight msg he replied saying he loves them.

As I said I am not interfering what so ever unless my kids are being hurt but they are doing ok.

Found one apartment for a month . Couldnot find something decent for three so inns month time will have to move. All is good at my side..... we will be fine ownit ... I know we will be...we might be even currently happier than lots of married couples...maybe we are spared the agony ...

Last edited by job; 04/28/17 06:15 AM. Reason: Added spacing between paragraphs
M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated