Hi BluMorn, Welcome to the board. I'm an Alabama lady also! I'm sorry you're in the situation you find yourself. Honestly, I don't know what to say. I'll let the experts and the veterans on here handle the advice part, but I just wanted to stop by and say welcome, and to encourage you to read all the things the Cadet suggested, the DB books, and other people's thread- they are very helpful too. The more you post on others' threads, the more they will get to know you, and you'll get more feedback that way. There are some good, kind people here, that will help you find your way. This place has saved me in some of my darkest days!
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton
