Sometimes I don't think it's in my best interest either, but I know there is a good person in there somewhere, and I love that person. This time apart is letting me reflect on that a bit, and I'm trying to figure out whether I want to save my marriage on principal, or because I want to be married to my H.
Me: 40 H:42 M 13 yrs, T 15yrs SD19, D18, SS15 BD: 3/4/17 - ILYBNILWY He moved out: 4/3/17