Hi Judela,
Take the advice (and it sounds like you are!) of the good people on here. We don't all always agree on the best course of action, but you alone know your situation best, so look at all the advice and go with what feels like the right thing, then on down the road, if that's not working, maybe try something else. The main thing needs to be JUDELA getting stronger and happier, the rest will fall in place one way or the other, but you'll be ready to handle it. Hang in there!!!


M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton