I just don't agree that these principles are a one size fits all and I tweak them to what feels right in my situation but in no way am I an expert on this.
I agree completely.
the very essence of DB says this exactly. It says do X and monitor for results and if it works, keep at it, if not, reassess.
Not sure where the problem is. NO ONE ever said one size fits all, anywhere in DBing.
Oh, the part where we work on ourselves that is unclear? That's not just to prepare us for things in the m not working out.
That's to make us better people, happier, and coincidentally more appealing as spouses.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
