Thank you Tread, I should have asked that a while back. And you hit the nail on the head. A huge part of the reason I am here is because of a lack of attention, etc. Now its more of the same (if not worse). Space is key I agree and TRUST me, she does know I want to save the marriage. But yes, some proactive suggestions would be nice.


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17