What would be your suggestion on how sellout can do to show his W the things she claimed to want? DBing advises us to pull away, but the things she's asking for kind of contradicts those methods. In my own situation the OM is marries and a state away. And communication is limited to messenger. Sellout here as his wife taking 3 day trip in his face. So what would be the best place for him to make in this situation?