3.5 Months of Pain - Fork in the Road

[sellout]

I am focusing on myself. I have lost over 30 lbs and obviously she sees this. I haven't mentioned a word about it and she hasn't either. I am being a wonderful father to our son (not that there was ever an issue with that before), and mentioning nothing about Marriage, Relationship, Divorce, OM, etc.. unless she brings it up. When she calls/texts I do answer and respond truthfully, kindly and politely.

A few weeks back I did tell her that I don't plan to date right now. I told her that I wanted to work/find myself and until I feel comfortable with that it wouldn't be fair to future woman.