One more thing. I know I have painted my wife as this monster, etc. but I wouldn't spend 16 years of my life with a monster. She is a wonderful mother and actually deep down a good person with a good heart. With that said, I truly feel that she, if for nothing less would try and give it a go for our son. She wants whats best for him and the neighbor across the street raising our son is not whats best. She knows that its jut going to take her to wake up and make a real decision to make it happen.

Maybe she is scared of all of the backlash she will get from family and friends that she has told along the way?


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17