I often wonder if I should have been silent about the A like yourself. And just make the changes needed. It doesn't help that my W told a few male friends about the pending BD. And now a few of them have made their intentions known to her. So now she just loves all this extra attention. I'm sure that she isn't messing with them, but I know their in her ear giving advice that doesn't work in my favor at all. I went from having a loyal wife who would kicked these guys to the curb to suddenly entertaining marriage advice from them. And most of the clowns have wives or long term girlfriends of their own...smh
