First time here part 2

[Bdog37]

Hey leahsue,

I am sorry you find yourself at this point. I understand where you are coming from, but tomorrow is a new day and you may feel differently. You may wake up and want to start fighting again. Who knows, but that is ultimately your choice.

The sad fact is that the majority of M's end in D. I know its hard to hear for most on this board, but unfortunately it is the truth. I have always believed that what I have learned here has made me a stronger person to realize, understand, and deal with this cold hard fact. I also believe that if I had not found this site then I would probably still be an emotional wreck. Yes, it is sad and you need to allow yourself some time to grieve, but keep DB'ing and someday the tears will subside...believe me. Things will get better and if you continue to apply the principles from what you have learned here then someday you will look back in shock of how far you have come.

Use DB to truly detach. Use it to better yourself, not to save your M, but to become the best leahsue you possibly can for you and you only. If it does come to D then you will be prepared and stronger to face such a challenge. If it doesn't come to that then you will already have the proper tools and knowledge to build a better MR.

Hang in there!