Not mind reading, just trying to analyze the situation.

Before I answer the Payoff question, let me preface by giving my opinion of DBing... For me personally, I am running a parallel path with this whole thing. 1) I am GAL and getting myself right for no matter what happens, 2) 50% of the reason for this is to WIN my wife/family back.

With that said, the payoff in terms of her wanting to work on the marriage (50% of my goal of being here).

So...with her actions, comments, etc. do you guys think she may be 2nd guessing any of this?

Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17