I understand Cadet I would do with your wise advice though right now.
In U.K. If you file a divorce before 2 years of separation you will have to have a reason that shows reconciliation is out of question. Hence if she files I would have to accept unreasonable behaviour towards me.

Now our marriage was not perfect and needed work but that is something for which I take 50% of the blame.

Now taking the divorce upon unreasonable behaviour from my side I feel would be a further blow for me.

I love this woman and if my theory of her having a MLC is right I think I would take her back if she makes it out of the tunnel.

I find it so frustrating the fact that I cannot do nothing.

I will try to waste time on filing in the hope she won't before but as I understand MLC is a long haul


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