Sometimes it can certainly be difficult to capture tone in the words on the screen here. All we can do is respond to what we see. When I read something like "I also really just want to tell her off. She deserves to hear it. But, i'll probably wait until after I have signed custody and asset agreements.", its difficult to understand whether this is a serious plan or whether you are 'venting'.
The posts were clear. He was not venting. He was clearly stating the intent to take immoral action in terms of hurting his WAW financially and emotionally. And then when confronted he said we were overreacting and blowing off steam.
No. There are lines when blowing off steam. Threatening someone is crossing a line, and then to dismiss it and twist things towards those calling him out as if we overreacted is manipulative. There's plenty of room on DB forums for him to get the support he needs from those that want to follow but I don't have time for these shenanigans.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
