WW, wlc, Waw or What?

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So, went to the doctor with D10 and we agreed to have her see a psychiatrist to figure out what is causing her issues. Maybe it’s just the divorce and the two homes that’s the conflict in her mind, but she is terrified of going to the doctor regarding her issue, so if she in fact was making up stories of hearing voices, they probably would have stopped by now. Alternatively, she would start to lie and say they were not there anymore. Therefore, it is probably real. We will see what happens. Hopefully its just something temporary, but if it isnt, I'm sort of relieved that it triggered when she is so young and have loving concerned parents around (not that our loving concern would ever go away, but i could be more difficult to see her problems if she was off to college or something like that).

XW have gone from not considering it anything serious, to being angry with me because i want to have D10 examined, to being upset that D10 would risk being diagnosed with something serious that wasn’t really very serious, to now agreeing to let her see a psychiatrist. Is that fog lifting? Or normal behavior? In fact, I haven’t seen any major foggy behavior from XW, at least not compared to other stories I read.

Are there anyone out there that had a non-foggy WS leave and eventually return? I have mentioned it before, but I’m slightly worried that XW isn’t a WW, but a WAW. That concerns me (I think a WW would be easier to “win back” than a WAW, I don’t know)…

Also, did any of your waywards that eventually returned, live in a normal relationship with the other person. (you read all these crazy stories of weird relationships...)