Alright read up on some boundaries but these likely need a lot of work...thoughts? #1 I need to implement ASAP. #2 I haven't been able to confirm that something is still going on. Looks like it but no solid proof so I'm not sure how I can change it to reflect on current sitch.

I need your continued transparency to regain trust after you lied to me. Therefore, I need to be able to view your messages and emails as necessary. If you cannot agree to this then you are free to pay your own portion of the phone and internet bills.

I will not tolerate you contacting the OM any longer as this is the ultimate disrespect to me. If you continue to do so then I will pursue separation or divorce.