i agree with the GAL comment. Ive started to gradually. By nature Im a bit of an introvert and most of those i was closest to were her family and friends
Within a week or two of bomb drop Ive taken the high road and rather quickly calmed things to the point of no arguments. To this day she often hides away or leaves on weekends, but i don't confront and always put on a positive face on things
I greatly sense she will ultimately leave and do know she has yet to accept what her financial future will be. Part of me wants to point it out, but i await her to bring forth such a discussion
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22