It's interesting how things can come back unexpectedly. While showering this morning, I got myself so angry over WH and how he gave OW an engagement ring while he was still living and sleeping with me and 'working on the M'. He's still denying that he gave it to her. I have told him that I know OW has told our neighbors that he gave it to her, so there's no point in upholding the lie. He still won't admit it. I guess it's hard for him to admit what a low-life he really is, even to himself.
I talked to a friend about how it's just like any other loss - it will come back and revisit at times, but hopefully get less and less painful as time goes by.
I think I'm doing pretty good overall, but I thought I'd just share.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17