good point. I have never thought of it that way, I just stopped asking if something is working.
Also I think disconnecting somewhat with her and letting her have the space she needs will help with my problems as well. I won't worry so much about it. I won't have to know what she is thinking about the progress all the time.
I think that is the point anyway.
Make sure whatever you do, it is for real, and not just some "ploy" to win her back.
A WAS can smell fake actions like Oprah can smell a Twinkie...
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I need to detach, so that I have some space and time to really sort things out in my head. I cannot worry about what she is doing, because I have my own set of issues to work through. I need to back away, and figure myself out before I can give that to her anyway. For cryin out loud, I drive a Mopar, and that can't be good...
