It is soooo hard to give her the space that she requires. I think I had somewhat of an epiphany yesterday. I am hurting, depressed, anxious, etc because I want to see her, hold her, kiss her, tell her that I love her and everything is going to be ok. but she is depressed anxious etc and doesn't want to see me, nor have the affection right now. so this butting of heads is causing more and more conflict. I need to work on giving her the space at the right time! let her be the one to come to me for attention, not me go basically begging and asking for it!
I may come across on here as someone that doesn't care to fix this but it is because I am blunt, to the point.
Try to stop looking over your shoulder at her, to see if something is "working" ...
Do you open the lid on your washing machine every 5 minutes to see if your clothes are clean ?
