Just because she refuses to separate doesn't mean you don't separate. You get a say in this too. In fact, you get all the say. You just need to realize that.
I do and it may come to that. I'm not the one leaving the house.
She just doesn't have the money to get her own place as a SAHM. That just leaves her AP to pay for it. She's in a pickle right now.
A pickle she put herself in and is 100% responsible for. Actions have consequences. Imagine that. You stay strong and firm on your boundaries. If she can't afford to take the kids on her own then she can leave without them and they stay with you. Problem solved.
