She doesn't have money for a lawyer and all documents have already been signed for D to be final. I just don't want to go forward with D.

I may use a portion of my 401k to go to school or learn a new profession. I'm bored of the IT/Oracle thing but who knows.

Too early to make decisions like this without counsel.

Can someone please explain where these "scripts" are so I can read through them? I see them referenced in threads but no links to read them that I have found.


M 8 yrs
EA 6/16
PA 09/16
Separated 10/16
WW moves out 11/16
D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17