I hear you Cadet. She told me the part about the texts she found he'd sent about her.
And after the court thing today I didn't really expect it from her or maybe I was just too self absorbed to be aware. She said it by phone and I moved on.
I could have said something - but remember that they have also told me not to defend him. THEY asked about court today and I said minimal, like "your father quit his job but for now the payments continue."
It's a fine line between covering for him (which I did for years, and which they have specifically asked me not to do)
and just telling too much.
Finding it I guess
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