1) I want to spend time with my son. I used to spend every single day with him and now I'm lucky if i spend 2 days a week with him.
As LH said, I think this is an issue for your lawyer. What is the long term plan in the divorce settlement?
Originally Posted By: sellout
2) Had I not agreed, she would have just used her Mother to watch him anyways. Why not be agreeable, nice, considerate, etc... she is going to do what she wants anyways right?
Yes, she is. But I guess it's up to you what relationship you want to have. If you are her safety net, then it doesnt give her any reason to change her behavior. If youre willing to stand by as her Plan B, why would she ever treat you as Plan A? Yes, I imagine she could find someone to watch S if you refuse, but if it were me, I would only step in if I thought the conditions were unsafe for him.
