Normal arrangement is that she typically has him during the week so he can maintain his consistent school routine and then he will stay with me Friday and Saturday nights. Yes, I am going to spend as much time with my son and that is NEVER going to change. Yes, obviously she is taking advantage of me as the on-call babysitter and that's even more proof she isn't thinking right. Before all of this happened, she would have NEVER engaged in these types of activities. Now its just a waiting game essentially. Wait to see if she snaps out of it or if this is her new way of life.

Who would have imagined that we as a family were in NYC for Christmas as a happy family (ice skating a Rockefeller Center, Statue of Liberty), etc.. and now this is the life we are living. Wow, life is crazy.

Any other suggestions would be great!


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17