I kick myself sometimes for not being much more forceful when it first started and telling her to end it or move out but then what good what it have done and do I really want this person anymore?
Same here. After I discovered my wife had been texting the OM all day while we were at Disney World with the boys, I was going to tell (not ask) my wife that I wanted a divorce. After the boys went to sleep, we went outside and talked about it. She told me they were just friends and I was overreacting (it was a much longer conversation than that). I believed her. I was such a dumb@ass.
