Originally Posted By: sellout
Yes, she is talking to me and when we talk its pleasant. Does that mean anything? I know she still has feelings for me but the OM in the way is a big distraction.


I wish I had that answer myself. Your statement could easily be applied to my W, too. My W says we have been best friends and great partners but we're just not "romantically suited" for each other. Meanwhile, she will continue seeing OM at work for the next month until he's finally gone for good.

Maybe someone with more wisdom can chime in.