180Man: ironic you say that...ive had that same conversation with her. We used to watch all of those murder mystery shows (Dateline, 48 Hour Mystery, etc.) and I mentioned that to her. I said that most people wouldn't have handled it as well as I have. She admits to what she is/has done is not easy for me.

So now what? Continue to 180?

Yes, she is talking to me and when we talk its pleasant. Does that mean anything? I know she still has feelings for me but the OM in the way is a big distraction.


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17