Holy shít dude, that's a ton of trash she has shoveled on top of you and it sounds like you're handling it well. My friend has had to remind me occasionally that some of the things my W has said are just excuses. "Had you handled this whole situation different in the last 3.5 months we would be working on our marriage and things would be much different. Your actions pushed me further into his arms."

......REALLY?

We are not perfect, none of us. But...she has an affair with the dude across the street and she blames your reaction for it? Get real. Yeah, you made mistakes. So did I. So did all of us. Honestly, I don't know how you haven't murdered anyone...if this guy was across the street from me I don't think I could be so cool and collected.

So, you're doing great. She's talking to you. There's that! Hang in there.


M-32 W-32 (both military)
T-8 M-6
PA Oct/Nov 16 (happened twice)
Discovered PA 11/30/16
S 12/1/16
MC 12/1/16 - 1/18/17
BD 1/18/17
A continues? 1/24/17 texts resume with W & OM
W Filed 3/8/17
W Deploys 7/17