Derek, I need to go back and read up on your thread, so I'm not going to comment much~ but I have to say, the whole not coming in til 3, sleeping in the van, then back up and gone at 6~ that all sounds like another man. I know that's not what you want to hear, but I wouldn't believe anything she tells you. There's maybe a thread of truth running through her story, but I promise you are not getting the transparent version. And I doubt you're going to get it anyway by confronting her and asking for truth. She's doing her own thing right now.
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