Her daughter's bd party is next weekend at a park and we had to reserve some tables. W checked the weather and it looks like snow next weekend. She blamed me for that "It's just another kick in the gut!" She has literally blamed me for everything, including the weather. I just listen and validate when I can.
She's also been crying alot and I don't know how to react in those situations. I hate to see her in pain. Typically I just give her an empathetic look like I know she's hurting and I'm sorry.
Honestly, I think W has bad mouthed me so much to her friends and family that she has no way to turn back even if she wanted to.
She's labeled me "abusive" but lets me play and do things with her daugther all day. Makes no sense to me.
