KENT I AM NEW TO THIS FORUM AND HOPE IT WILL PROVIDE THE ANSWERS I AM LOOKING FOR. YOUR ADVICE ABOUT NOT SPYING MAKES SENSE. I DESPERATELY WANT TO TRUST MY W BUT FIND IT EXTREMELY HARD TO DO SO. I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE THAT THE PAIN OF KNOWING FAR EXCEEDS THE PAIN OF NOT KNOWING. I STILL FIND IT HARD TO LET IT GO EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT CAUSES ME TERRIBLE MENTAL ANGUISH. THERE IS A REMARKABLE PARALLEL BETWEEN MOST OF THE STORIES ON HERE. I THOUGHT I WAS WALKING ALONE ON THIS ONE, THAT NO ONE ELSE WAS WALKING IN MY SHOES. I AM HAPPY TO SEE THAT MAYBE THERE IS A SOLUTION TO MY MARITAL PROBLEMS OR AT LEAST THERE IS SOME SUPPORT OUT THERE. I DIDNT HAVE A CLUE AS TO WHERE TO GET HELP. IM GLAD I CAME TO THIS FORUM
