Can you think of any posters that while their XH and marriage had problems they wish it hand't have ended? I guess I was hoping you'd have been the first.
Zues, have you forgotten all about me? Yes, I wish my m hadn't ended. I wish we had stayed together and worked our way to a better place. Because it would have been better for my kids, because that's what I promised to do, because I wanted to grow old with the man I married at 25. I've spelled out that before, I'm surprised at your post.
Does that mean I'm not happy now. Nope. I am, in fact, happier than I was married. The last few years anyway. But that doesn't mean I'm glad it ended.