25 yearsMLC 10 years late I FILE part 2

[bigybiz]

Hey 25 -I saw the letter you posted on Cali's thread and I have a question for you. I did not want to hijack Cali's thread.

In the letter you posted it basically stated the WAW feels that 6 months of super/reformed/remorseful husband is not going to make up for the years of neglect etc. That I understand.

After the BD, and hearing what my W feels is the source of our undoing etc - I wonder if she will ever realize that she had a role in the R issues too?

My W neglected and rejected me too. During the months of R talk - she always had a way to justify it. Further, she did not like the MC telling her that she is too blame too.

Would the author of that letter ever let herself believe that it takes two to tango?

I'd love to hear your thoughts