Thornton - I honestly think it would help again more personally than for the M or R, but it's not going to be about pursuing the R but calling out the EA. I've never been one to confront and it's my way of a 180.
My goal is driven by continuing my improvements to self and overcoming my NGS by being assertive is one of my main goals. This confrontation fits this bill.
I'm realizing now the lack of respect shown by my W with the EA to me. It's time to stand up for me in this regardless of the overall outcome in our M. That is so up in the air regardless.
The risk I have of not calling this out right now is regretting not having done so. It's about not having regrets in this. As I said earlier, my eyes are opening a bit and I'm seeing where my lack of backbone before was added fuel to her fire against intimacy with me.
That's where I'm at now however, if, when I pull this off is yet to be seen but I'll be back to post.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
