Well wife started yoga cert training yesterday. 7AM-7PM with an hour drive each way. I'm at home with kids. She was chatty all day talking about the classes which was nice as I'm genuinely interested. Almost 8 and she tells me she is catching dinner with a couple of other students. Then she goes silent for hours. I ping her mom who is aware of the situation and she hasn't heard anything from her either. Her mom actually drove to the guys house my wife had been chatting with (EA, probable one night stand) no sign of wife's car. Wife doesn't show up until 3 AM and then left again at 6:15 AM to do the cert thing all over again today.
Today...wife tells me she had a couple of drinks that kicked her butt and crashed for a few hours in the van to sleep it off before driving home. I honestly don't any longer know what to believe.
I'm really trying to detach and distance myself from her a bit but it's such a battle both internal and with her never ending flakiness. On one hand I feel like I'm being played but other times not. She is being more selfish than usual but I think a lot of that is also needed for her to start this new career. I DO need to start pushing back more before I become (more of) a doormat.
